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What if you could always feel like the sexy girlfriend?

Regardless of your relationship status or your waist size?

Are you ready to break the patterns that have kept you in a cycle of wondering how you can finally build the community & family you need?

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“I started a journey to self healing which has included therapy and coaching programs six years ago. Working with Christina has made the biggest difference in calming my nervous system. Radiance has taught me to see what is going on inside of me on a deep level. Radiance has helped me more than anything else I have done. I can't believe the changes that have happened across my life, financially and in my relationships.” - Emily Norden

I talk to so many women who tell me they are...

Dating and...

✔️Are SO tired of wasting time on therapy methods that take years to show results.

✔️Even though they’ve read all the books, done the programs and journaled till their fingers hurt... they keep repeating the same patterns with men over and over... even though they “know better”.

✔️Are feeling like they don’t know how to connect with “good guys” because those men feel boring. 

✔️They are still seeking intense, immediate connections and creating lust filled rollercoasters that fizzle out after a couple weeks... and then they’re left swiping on Hinge again or needing a long recovery break from men. 

In a Relationship and...

✔️Are feeling like they can't ever get conflict or boundaries right. It's either too much or not enough.

✔️Their partner withdrew more as they added therapy sentence frames to communicate with him.

✔️They really don't know if their communication or their man is the problem at this point.

✔️Getting what they need in a relationship just feels impossible. 

✔️Are being told to simply "take a bath, journal, breathe or just say no more often" as the path to solving their anxiety, disappointment and fear around their relationships. But it's just not working. 

Sound familiar? 

It doesn't have to stay this way.

I have worked with hundreds of real women who have used the embodiment tools in Radiance to build self trust & real-life, love story relationships with men & friends.

I know because, there was a time I hard time even enjoying being around men. My relationships other relationships were pretty shallow too. 

I would go back and forth between asking men for almost nothing after months (or years) of connection (hello sexy Barbie) OR passing out a list of rules to them to get everything in line. 

I saw all men as either too good for me or not good enough. My emotions were completely hidden or they were huge. I was trying to free myself from a lifetime of immaturity in relating to men but I could not even relax enough to feel like myself around them. 

Being single felt like an emergency but so did being in a relationship. 

The person that I was in my professional life or with friends was almost non-existent in my relationships with men. 

I couldn't fully receive from the solid guys (or hold attraction to them) and I couldn't see obvious character flaws like lying or pretending in the immature guys. I needed help. Talk therapy, mantras, books and podcasts weren't working.

Sound familiar?

SO instead of spending months talking about my problem and learning WHY I was having these issues with men, because that wasn’t getting me anywhere, I did something different.

I invested in somatic coaching and within a year I went from feeling angry with men post divorce to feeling good around men. Over time I began feeling sure that I knew when to let things go and when I needed to stay.

All of my relationships improved... but most importantly, I healed the one with myself. 

Being single & dating felt fun and so did being in a relationship. Men didn't change. I did. 

Through the embodiment  methods I teach you can learn to wait, hold and soothe anxiety. So that you can make real life choices that actually feel good and communicate in ways that feel good to other people too.

My Radiance client stories are all so beautiful and unique because this is a blueprint for a more authentic version of you, not a cookie cutter set of rules for more man management (gross) or self silencing (ugh). 

You can cultivate and find the healthy love, connection and intimacy you desire and deserve with men, friends and with your children. All of your relationships are important! I have built an entire community to support you! 

Are you ready to build a family and a life on your own terms?

"I am in awe of who I am today. I feel so much more confident about recognizing where my energy aligns with others. I have become acutely aware of the connections—or lack thereof—that exist between me and the people I encounter. This newfound awareness has had a profound impact on my recent experiences with online dating. I am now able to quickly discern how I truly feel. This is an incredible breakthrough for me, and I owe it all to Radiance. Embodiment goes far beyond surface level understanding - it is my therapy.

Investing in this program and participating in deep one-on-one sessions has been the best money I have ever spent. I have learned how to navigate the ups and downs of life, understand the true nature of energetic connections, and discover alignment within myself."

KIM, 2023

Introducing

Radiance: Build authentic connections & understand your emotions in 12 weeks. 

Radiance is a unique coaching experience for successful women where you can learn to embody rare relationships on your terms .... say HELLO to joining a community where women actually like men!

Inside radiance you will 

💎 Develop practical skills to transform your relationships. Stop connecting through threats, lectures and complaints. 

💎 Gain a sexy, authentic confidence while you balance masculine & feminine energies through live classes and a supportive community.

💎 Embrace uncertainty without overwhelming anxiety, through a deep assurance that when the time comes you will know exactly what to do. 

💎 WITHOUT having to follow outdated, traditional methods that haven't worked for you in the past.

SO you can BUILD INCREDIBLY INSPIRING, UNIQUE CONNECTED  RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANYONE YOU CHOOSE.

The community and extensive course work is a flexible subscription. You can do this at your own pace and with the support of live classes and with a community of other embodied women! 

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What if you are just trying too hard…

Many coaches and therapists will tell you that the path to relationship freedom is simply to "love and accept yourself". I am going to teach you exactly HOW to do that. It isn't hard and it does not take a lifetime. My client results speak for themselves. Love shouldn't be over-engineered. 

What if you simply no longer needed to control everything?

It is easy and possible to uncover a more authentic, intuitive and connected version of yourself. A version of yourself where your own inner voice is clear and steady instead of confusing and chaotic.

The women I work with might start out with a goal of finding a partner or creating a better relationship with the man in their life. However as they go through Radiance they discover that what they really wanted was to feel essentially "ok" all of the time regardless of their relationship status. They want to feel good about creating their own rules for life. Life is just too short to not feel comfortable in your own skin. Embodiment coaching gives you the tools to build a life full of sensuality, connection and adventure BUT with real people. Not imaginary soulmates. Not with men who have such a low EQ they shut down for days and months at a time.

It can feel easy to ask for exactly what you need with an open heart. It can feel clear to let things go that aren't good for you. Your boundaries can sound like exciting invitations instead of like a broken record. Once you soothe your own nervous system, get clear on your personal values, and learn creative ways to build deep connections... the man in your life will either step forward or the relationship just won't make sense. You won't try to solve his x like a female TV show either. It never mattered why Big didn't show more real investment in Carrie.

I am living this story with you and I am always one post away in the community. Just surrounding yourself with women who are having super positive experiences with men can be lifechanging. The community along with my male clients are a daily reminder to me of what's possible in a world where it seems like everyone is saying monogamy doesn't work, I have evidence that it does.  “Couples who have friends who divorce have a 75% increase in the risk of their own marriage ending" (Forbes).  Being in a community of positive, embodied women who have great relationships with men, themselves and other women... MATTERS.

If you identify as female you must face your conditioning.

What if you just don't know how to receive? I didn't. What if what you believe is nice and fair is really causing you self-harm and to be offered fewer opportunities? What if there are ways to build connections with yourself, men and other women that you were never taught?

 

THE RESULTS
YOU CAN EXPECT

BUILD INCREDIBLY INSPIRING & UNIQUE RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANYONE YOU CHOOSE

Total confidence in your choices. Keeping a relationship will not require you to self abandon or walk on eggshells. If it does you will let it go freely.

FEEL MORE BALANCED IN YOUR MASCULINE AND FEMININE ENERGIES

Learn how to communicate your needs clearly with passion and excitement. Guess what the world really needs more than anything right now? More women like you to develop an embodied and original voice. No one leaves with same result or the same kind of relationships, because we are all meant to be so different. 

STEP INTO YOUR VOICE, YOUR SEXUALITY, AND YOUR CHOICES

You do not have to apologize for your personality, your body or your unique needs as a woman. You just have to learn to integrate every part of yourself and hold resonance with your own unique energy. Once you do that life will meet you. A life based on your own values, not mine, not a celebrities. 

⇢ HERE'S THE DEAL: YOU CAN HAVE A LIFE THAT IS CLEAR, GROUNDED, AND CONNECTED⇠

Radiance

A 12 module course with a large library of extra support + two live workshops per month + an online community.

 ⇨ The library has over 50 hours of content and it is growing! You can watch the essential 12 videos or feel supported with tons of extra content & practices based on your personal needs and learning style. 

 ⇨ The monthly workshops are mix of group coaching and live classes. Topics are chosen by the needs of the community. You can join live or watch them later. 

 ⇨ The online Kajabi hosted community is a place where you can connect with other women (OFF public social media) and ask questions or share about embodied living. Christina also uses the space to host monthly challenges and is available there for questions. 

 ⇨ If once you get started you want to add 1-1 coaching that is super simple to do! 

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Radiance is different from other programs you have tried...

⇨ Instead of a few short videos you will get 12 Weeks of Core Curriculum that is expansive and supportive. There is over 16 hours of core content offered with many bonus teachings to expand and personalize Radiance. 

⇨ Instead of all pre-recorded classes you can join in Live twice a month for workshops with Christina and have a chance to ask questions and listen to the experience of other women. 

⇨  Instead of feeling like you don't have enough support to make this a custom experience you will receive tons of bonus content and past classes on topics like embodied health, dating, boundaries and somatic sexuality.  

⇨ Instead of feeling alone as you go through the curriculum you will have access to an online community, inside of the curriculum where you can celebrate wins and ask questions. 

⇨ Finally, instead of trying to practice embodiment and nervous system work on your own you will get access to a large (and growing) library of guided embodiment and somatic practices. 

Sanctuary

Learn how to immediately feel better and more in control of your emotions in less than 5 minutes without losing you cool.

Unique and effective energy and embodiment practices help clients to immediately feel better and more in control of their emotional experiences. There are simple shifts and larger embodied living changes that all work together to support clients. During this module clients journey through wintering their past experiences and creating awareness of what is going on in their lives. A bit ah ha moment for many women in Sanctuary is recognizing how much change can happen from just putting their energy and attention on themselves instead of on their partner or on the "relationship".

The goal of “Sanctuary” is continuous access to inner wisdom and feeling safe.

Module One

Revealed

Learn how to unlock new parts of your unique personality. Most of us are playing so small in our relationships with men. 

Taking embodied actions and developing more self expression supports clients in building self trust. Self trust coupled with the deep nervous system work in module one leads to self love. As clients learn that they can easily choose what is best for them with clarity and authenticity they start to experience more confidence. How does the most authentic, embodied and turned on version of YOU communicate and live? I bet it's really awesome and unicorn like. 

The goal of “Revealed” is to create a balanced life full of self expression and flow. 

Module Two

Create

In the community shares and from taking workshops where Christina shares wisdom from her coaching sessions with men you will start to build a framework of new connection potential with men.

Finally, we work on the steps to building embodied connections: story, listening, attunement and making exciting invitations. Women often realize once they start bringing new connections into their lives during this work that they need new skills to form healthy attachments. Most of us did not have great models for the type of connection that builds real trust and investment. Knowing on a deep level that you gave a relationship a good chance with real connection skills is so healing if you need to let it go. 

The goal of “Create” is for women to be able to handle conflict and the expression of desires in new and creative ways.

Module Three
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GO AT YOUR
OWN PACE

LIVE WORKSHOPS & CALLS

ONLINE COMMUNITY

FLEXIBLE MONTH TO MONTH ACCESS TO ALL MODULES

 

“I had worked with other healers and coaches, but it was Christina’s guidance and wisdom that helped me move forward."

Preeti Mattoo

CEO and Founder of Well Adorned

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HI! I'M CHRISTINA.

I'm an embodiment coach, a mom of three teenagers, an educator and an entrepreneur. 

I began my own healing journey in my 30’s after a divorce and career change. I have online dated and I partner with regular men just like you do! 

MY STORY.

I began my own healing journey in my 30’s & after trying many traditional (and fringe) methods to soothe latent triggers from old trauma in ways that changed my real life problems...

I still felt stuck. 

While therapy helped me understand & heal Trauma, it also left me feeling in some ways like I was stuck. I didn’t get the orientation towards making real changes in my life that I wanted. I needed tools I could use by myself to shift dynamics in real time. I also wanted something faster and honestly… maybe sexier? It felt disappointing that self healing was so dry.

I was exhausted by the list of ‘healthy’ communication strategies and super human qualities that I needed to spend my life aspiring toward. I just wanted to feel like myself. I wanted to just wake up feeling ok everyday. I didn’t want to trade an exciting, erotic, deep life experience for something ‘healthy’ either. I have always known the the hardest parts of my personality (my shadow) are the flip sides of my greatest qualities. I wanted something that felt like harvesting more of me, not taking away. My experience as a woman was already so full of trying to be less or smaller.  

I started to explore my options. I knew my main problem was that I couldn't control my trigger responses or listen to my intuition when I needed it most.  So I was looking for a nervous system regulation method that matched my personality and style. I found Embodiment to be the most effective and quickest method to soothing my nervous system. The somatic work that I now teach and coach in made it possible for me to  finally make values centered moves in real time by tapping into my intuition. Instead of into my trauma. 

My interpretation of embodiment is simply connecting with an ability that you were born with. An soothing essential nature of self regulation and self attunement that you have always possessed and can tap into at any moment. I became certified in Embodiment Coaching through the School of Embodied Arts based in Queensland, Australia. I have created my core curriculums, through the lens of both my own experiences and the stories of the many men & women I have worked with.

My background in education heavily supports my client work. I hold an M.Ed. degree and five education certifications in my state. My background in exceptional education and working with traits of giftedness often helps me build connections for my clients.

Finally, being a mother of three floods my calls with a supporting and nurturing energy that my clients treasure. 

Imagine if... You were laying in bed with your partner, giggling, deeply connected to your self, not thinking about the dishes in the sink, or the laundry in the dryer ... not worried about the future of the connection?

I can show you how to live and communicate authentically. As a real woman. Not through destroying yourself but through immersing yourself in love and passion. True confidence isn't loud and harsh, it is embodied and often presents as a deep, quiet knowing. A knowing that pulses through men, children and friends. 
Step into your power, your voice, your sexuality and your choices.

You do not have to apologize for your personality or your unique needs as a woman. Keeping a relationship will not require you to self abandon or walk on eggshells. If it does you will let it go.

Are you finally ready to create relationships that make you say, "the deep, intimate love I crave is real"?

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