Are you a woman seeking healthier connections with men... your sexuality...and especially with yourself?
Join Radiance.
Radiance is an embodied relationship & dating community + course. Where you can learn to create & maintain the rare relationships you desire.
On your terms.
With support from women who actually like men.
Are you tired of wasting time on therapy methods that take years to show results? Did your partner bristle and withdraw as you added therapy sentence frames to communicating with him? How about being told to "take a bath, journal, breathe or just say no more often" as the path to healing your screaming anxiety and fear?
My approach includes real skills that I had to learn post divorce to do better with men and with friends. Through embodiment you can learn to wait, listen and soothe anxiety. So that you can make real life changes that actually feel good long term. My Radiance client stories are all so beautiful and unique because this is a blueprint for a more authentic version of you, not a cookie cutter set of rules for man management or self silencing.
The community and course is a flexible subscription. You can do this at your own pace and with the support of live workshops and a community of other embodied women!
Keep reading to watch videos of my clients who have experienced real life changes with embodiment and energy work. You don't have to manifest the perfect man or the perfect body. It is safe to step off the self healing hamster wheel.
Real, messy, human relationships can bring you joy. Embodiment practices can give you bandwidth. This community can show you what is really possible.
“I started a journey to self healing which has included therapy and coaching programs six years ago. Working with Christina has made the biggest difference in calming my nervous system. Radiance has taught me to see what is going on inside of me on a deep level. Radiance has helped me more than anything else I have done. I can't believe the changes that have happened across my life, financially and in my relationships.” - Emily Norden
ANY OF THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?
Let's go beyond traditional dating and relationship coaching. Let's go deeper.
Also...it isn't just you! 50% of first marriages, 67% of second marriages and 73% of third marriages are dissolved. This is a global problem. We have to work together to solve it.
Your relationships with men feel disappointing. You don't like who you become as your romantic relationships evolve. You feel more regulated when you are single.
You have been following the ‘rules’ of relationship coaches, therapists & podcasters. You have read a stack of self help books. Yet in some ways it has made life feel harder and heavier.
You have trouble staying attracted to & trusting men over a long period of time. You aren't sure if it is you or them anymore.
You can't find the middle ground in dating, career or relationships. You are either a doormat or being strict and cold.
You find it hard to communicate, especially with men, in a way that inspires them. When heard at a all, your boundaries come out as rules instead of fun invitations to get closer.
You just feel ready to arrive at your destination. You are ready to date real men and become closer with the real women in your life right now.
Are you ready to build a family and a life on your own terms?
"I am in awe of who I am today. I feel so much more confident about recognizing where my energy aligns with others. I have become acutely aware of the connections—or lack thereof—that exist between me and the people I encounter. This newfound awareness has had a profound impact on my recent experiences with online dating. I am now able to quickly discern how I truly feel. This is an incredible breakthrough for me, and I owe it all to Radiance. Embodiment goes far beyond surface level understanding - it is my therapy.
Investing in this program and participating in deep one-on-one sessions has been the best money I have ever spent. I have learned how to navigate the ups and downs of life, understand the true nature of energetic connections, and discover alignment within myself."
KIM, 2023
IMAGINE IF…
What if you were so deeply connected to your own internal compass that you no longer needed to control everything? It is easy and possible to uncover a more authentic, intuitive and connected version of yourself. A version of yourself where your own inner voice is clear and steady instead of confusing and chaotic. The women I work with might start out with a goal of finding a partner or creating a better relationship with the man in their life. However as they go through the program they discover that what they really wanted was to feel essentially "ok" all of the time regardless of their relationship status. They want to feel good about creating their own rules for life. Life is just too short to not feel comfortable in your own skin. Embodiment coaching gives you the tools to build a life full of sensuality, connection and adventure BUT with real people. Not imaginary soulmates. It can feel easy to ask for exactly what you need with an open heart. Your boundaries can sound like exciting invitations instead of like a broken record. Once you soothe your own nervous system, get clear on your personal values, and learn creative ways to build deep connections... the man in your life will either step forward or the relationship just won't make sense. Many coaches and therapists will tell you that the path to relationship freedom is simply to "love and accept yourself". I am going to teach you exactly HOW to do that. It isn't hard and it does not take a lifetime. My client results speak for themselves.
I am living this story with you and I am always one post away in the community. “Couples who have friends who divorce have a 75% increase in the risk of their own marriage ending (Forbes)". Being in a community of embodied women who believe in and have great relationships with men MATTERS.
If you identify as female you must face your conditioning.
What if you just don't know how to receive? I didn't. What if what you believe is nice and fair is really causing you self-harm and to be offered fewer opportunities? What if there are ways to build connections with yourself and men and other women that you were never taught?
⇢ HERE'S THE DEAL: YOU CAN HAVE A LIFE THAT IS REAL, GROUNDED, AND CONNECTED⇠
introducing
Radiance
A 12 module course with a large library of extra support + two live workshops per month + an online community.
Subscribe for flexible monthly access priced at just $47 per month.
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Sanctuary
Unique, short and effective energy and embodiment practices help clients to immediately feel better and more in control of their emotional experiences. There are simple five minute shifts and larger embodied living changes that all work together to support clients. During this module clients journey through wintering their past experiences and creating awareness of what is going on in their lives.
The goal of “Sanctuary” is continuous access to inner wisdom.
Module One
Revealed
Taking embodied actions and developing more self expression supports clients in building self trust. Self trust coupled with the deep nervous system work in module one leads to self love. As clients learn that they can easily choose what is best for them with clarity and authenticity they start to experience more confidence.
The goal of “Revealed” is to create a balanced life full of self expression and flow.
Module Two
Create
Finally, we work on the four steps to building embodied connections: story, listening, attunement and invitations. Women often realize once they start bringing new connections into their lives during this work that they need new skills to form healthy attachments.
The goal of “Create” is for women to be able to handle conflict and the expression of desires in new and creative ways.
Module Three
THE RESULTS
YOU CAN EXPECT
BUILD INCREDIBLY INSPIRING & UNIQUE RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANYONE YOU CHOOSE
Total confidence in your choices. Keeping a relationship will not require you to self abandon or walk on eggshells. If it does you will let it go freely.
FEEL MORE BALANCED IN YOUR MASCULINE AND FEMININE ENERGIES
Learn how to communicate your needs clearly with passion and excitement. Guess what the world really needs more than anything right now? More women like you to develop an embodied and original voice. No one leaves with same result or the same kind of relationships, because we are all meant to be so different.
STEP INTO YOUR VOICE, YOUR SEXUALITY, AND YOUR CHOICES
You do not have to apologize for your personality, your body or your unique needs as a woman. You just have to learn to integrate every part of yourself and hold resonance with your own unique energy. Once you do that life will meet you. A life based on your own values, not mine, not a celebrities.
WHY THIS PROGRAM
IS DIFFERENT
⇨ 12 Weeks of Core Curriculum
⇨ Two Live (and recorded) Workshops Per Month
⇨ Loads of Bonus Content Including Master Classes on Health, Dating, Boundaries and Somatic Sexuality
⇨ Online Community Access
⇨ Bonus! Daily Original Guided Embodiment & Feminine Energy Practices
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GO AT YOUR
OWN PACE
LIVE WORKSHOPS
ONLINE COMMUNITY
FLEXIBLE MONTH TO MONTH ACCESS TO ALL MODULES
“I had worked with other healers and coaches, but it was Christina’s guidance and wisdom that helped me move forward."
Preeti Mattoo
CEO and Founder of Well Adorned
Energy and Embodiment
Energy and Embodiment work help clients to feel better and more in control of their emotional experiences. Many times when clients start working with me they feel either number or highly reactive. It is simple to take back control of your body and it doesn't take years. It simply isn't true that your past trauma and experiences have to control your attachments or shut you down for months at a time. There are simple five minute shifts and larger embodied living changes that all work together to support clients. We are learning how to build a safe inner core to your life that no one can disrupt.
Step One
Taking Action
Taking embodied actions and habits support clients in building self trust which leads to self love. As clients learn that they can choose in a relationship and career with clarity and authenticity they also start to experience more confidence. We work on clarifying roles so that clients can take new roles in their EXISTING connections. You don't need to start all over to feel differently or experience a new dynamic with a man. There are layers to your personality and new versions of yourself that need to come online in order for you to feel creative in connection.
Step Two
Building Connections
Finally we work on the four steps to building embodied connections: Story, Listening, Attunement and Invitations. Women develop a softness and an enthusiasm that is magnetic to the right people. Clear and direct communication does not have to be harsh and punishing. The truth is that connections are built not found. We stop looking for a dream man or a dream job to just appear. Women utilize all of their nervous system control and new tolerance for creative change to create life and connection on their own terms.
Step Three
Investment
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MY STORY.
I began my own healing journey in my 30’s & after trying many traditional (and fringe) methods to soothe latent triggers from old trauma in ways that changed my real life problems...
I still felt stuck.
While therapy helped me understand & heal Trauma, it also left me feeling in some ways like I was stuck. I didn’t get the orientation towards making real changes in my life that I wanted. I needed tools I could use by myself to shift dynamics in real time. I also wanted something faster and honestly… maybe sexier? It felt disappointing that self healing was so dry.
I was exhausted by the list of ‘healthy’ communication strategies and super human qualities that I needed to spend my life aspiring toward. I just wanted to feel like myself. I wanted to just wake up feeling ok everyday. I didn’t want to trade an exciting, erotic, deep life experience for something ‘healthy’ either. I have always known the the hardest parts of my personality (my shadow) are the flip sides of my greatest qualities. I wanted something that felt like harvesting more of me, not taking away. My experience as a woman was already so full of trying to be less or smaller.
I started to explore my options. I knew my main problem was that I couldn't control my trigger responses or listen to my intuition when I needed it most. So I was looking for a nervous system regulation method that matched my personality and style. I found Embodiment to be the most effective and quickest method to soothing my nervous system (so that I can make values centered moves in real time) and tapping into my intuition.
My interpretation of embodiment is simply connecting with an ability that you were born with. A soothing essential nature of self regulation and self attunement that you have always possessed and can tap into at any moment. I became certified in Embodiment Coaching through the School of Embodied Arts based in Queensland, Australia. I have created my core curriculums, through the lens of both my own experiences and the stories of the many men & women I have worked with. My background in education heavily supports my client work. I hold an M.Ed. degree and five education certifications in my state. My background in exceptional education and working with traits of giftedness often helps me build connections for my clients.
MY VISION.
The energy needed to manage our households, families and amazing careers is masculine. And most of us are using a form of masculine energy that's more of a judgmental task master than a loving father. However our entire culture pretty much runs on a toxic form of masculine energy. A unique part of my work is helping women mature and work with a form of masculine depth that they might have seen modeled before. A part of you that can hold your own emotions and see the bigger picture and wait with intention... needs to be created.
The energy needed for a deep romantic connection, a lifelong friend, or making a child feel deeply seen though is FEMININE. The whole world wants us to forget how receive, intuit, feel and live with our bodies instead of against them. Even the feminine energy we see in art and media is often needy, broken and rages a path of emotional destruction. Mature feminine energy is what our Earth and our bodies need, now more than ever.
When a woman isn’t deeply connected with her mature emotions her life becomes unbalanced. When my clients begin Radiance they often realize that they are hyper critical of themselves and others. In relationships they can become anxious and triggered to the point of not knowing if the core problem is the other person's behavior or their own reactions. Many of my clients have been burying their feelings in constant tasks to the point that they are unable to relax without medications or alcohol.
Embodiment work unlocks a natural desire to seek support and deep connection through soothing the nervous system.
Embodiment is a deep remembering. I do not coach women to pretend to be feminine by buying dresses or practicing banter. I do not coach female executives to "turn off their masculine" either. When you practice Embodiment you are ‘turning on’ the core nature in your body and it is magnetic. In Radiance, we use these terms in a way they aren't often used in media or even in other popular coaching programs.
The women I work with want to cultivate family and partnership on their own terms. They want a life that is big, successful, AND connected. They want to bring forth more of their unique personality and culture not less of it. And they want to do it with other women who are forging brave paths.
What if you could always feel like the sexy girlfriend? Regardless of your relationship status or your waist size.
I can show you how to live and communicate authentically. As a real woman. Not through destroying yourself but through immersing yourself in love and passion. True confidence isn't loud and harsh, it is embodied and often presents as a deep, quiet knowing. A knowing that pulses through men, children and friends.
Step into your power, your voice, your sexuality and your choices.
You do not have to apologize for your personality or your unique needs as a woman. Keeping a relationship will not require you to self abandon or walk on eggshells. If it does you will let it go.
