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1. My Sub Stack Essay Series on Desire: Alchemy Is What You Really Want, Not Money, Not a Relationship - READ Week 1

All 6 essays are linked at the bottom of the first one. 

2. Six Embodiment Guides for Written For My Dear Men Blog on Medium: Essay 1: Dear Men: Stop Disappointing Her — Here’s How to Fix It - READ

3. My Favorite Embodied Relationship Essays

As requested here are my top ten suggestions for dipping into my writing on embodied relationships from the past year. I write on my own email list, on a free Substack and on Medium, in a series called Dear Men. 
These are my favorite articles, but not necessarily my most popular ones because the algorithm largely dictates what gets read more and what gets missed. The Dear Men series are just as helpful for women as they are for men they are just framed towards men.

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✔️One Question That Can Transform Every Relationship You Have; Desire Part 6 of 6

✔️Nothing Is Done Alone: Your "People" Are Weird; Desire Series Part 5 of 6

✔️Dear Men: Are You Fighting Reality With Women? Embrace your facticity to unlock your options

✔️ Dear Men: Are You Fighting Reality With Women? Embrace your facticity to unlock your options

✔️Are You Unrelatable? Why People Admire You but Rarely Commit—and How to Align Your Inner and Outer Self for Deeper Connections

✔️Dear Men: Your Bandwidth Is Low Because You Aren’t Doing Enough; You Have Spent Too Much Time Alone and It Shows

✔️Dear Men: How to Initiate With Women Without Being Creepy or Annoying; Six Steps to Asking a Woman Out on a Date  Well.

✔️Why Smart Women Get Bad Behavior From Men; The alternative method to becoming your man’s free life coach 

✔️Dear Men: Is the F*ck Yes Myth Working For You? Is Business Marketing Advice Ruining Your Romantic Relationships? 

✔️Dear Men: Where to Find Women That Love Sex. Unicorn Women That Want Sex Decades Into the Relationship Exist.