Essay Archive

Each Sunday I send essays on embodiment, love, boundaries, and emotional clarity to my private email list. I archive my favorites here.

Man bringing flowers and wine, taking intentional romantic action to keep the connection from slipping into just friendship.

How Mirroring Feminine Energy Turns Romantic Potential Into Friendship masculine energy men and dating polarity relationships somatic work Jan 04, 2026

POV of a man watching a woman in the water, representing how strong feelings make him tense and unsteady around the women he cares about most.

Why Men Fall Apart Around the Women They Like Most emotional presence men and dating nervous system relationships somatic work Jan 04, 2026

Blurred streaks of warm lights, symbolizing the internal confusion and emotional distortion caused by suppressed anger.

How Suppressed Anger Makes Men Less Attractive Over Time emotional embodiment masculine energy men and anger relationships somatic work Jan 04, 2026

A woman in soft light with her eyes closed, symbolizing calm, healthy feminine energy that often goes unnoticed.

How Men Filter Out the Healthiest Women Without Realizing It dating dynamics emotional availability men and women relationships somatic work Jan 04, 2026

Woman standing by a window with a cup in hand, appearing lost in thought to symbolize self-reflection in relationships

The Hidden Ways Women Sabotage Love Without Realizing It dating expectations emotional patterns relationships somatic work women and relationships Jan 04, 2026

Close-up of hay in a blurred field, used as a visual metaphor for the ‘burned haystack’ dating concept

Should Men Be Worried About the Burned Haystack Method? dating dynamics emotional safety men and women relationship dynamics relationships somatic healing Jan 04, 2026

Symbolic image illustrating how people hide behind emotional barriers and avoid intimacy in modern dating dynamics.

Sexual Repression and the American Dating Collapse: Why My Work Sounds Extreme If You’re Used To Extremes dating culture emotional intimacy modern dating relationships somatic healing Jan 04, 2026

Close-up of a hand held up toward the camera, suggesting emotional distance or withdrawal.

Why Women Pull Away After Men Open Up: Understanding the Mother Wound anxious attachment dating relationship dynamics relationships Jan 04, 2026

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